How to Overcome Shyness by Adams Media

Author:Adams Media
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Adams Media

The Internet

The reason this option for meeting others is last on the list is simple. Staying home alone in front of your computer is not the optimal way to finally solve your issues of shyness. Many people who are too shy to date have described spending weeks, months, even years(!) chatting or IMing people on dating sites and never getting up the nerve to meet with them in person. The previous suggestions for meeting people require you to be proactive in your search to find a partner. Actively making a commitment to challenge your habitual shyness and getting out there in the world is what will bring you closer toward your goal of greater self-confidence.

Internet dating sites may fit your comfort level like the proverbial glove, but you will not be challenging yourself to confront and overcome your fears unless you take an active role and personal responsibility for meeting others. The Internet can be a great resource for meeting someone. But if you do choose this route, make sure you actually meet with them. Again, as in any dating, meet any and all people you feel you might have a rapport or something in common with. Even if none turns out to be the love of your life, you will gain experience in talking to another person one to one and you may even make some friends in the process.

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Being shy carries with it both excellent observational skills and, on the other hand, a willingness to forgo your intuition and enter into social interactions that might not be what you truly want but you do because you are grateful and relieved that someone, anyone, would want to meet you. You should neither wait a month to meet with someone you are interested in nor agree to meet after one online exchange.

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